Finding the perfect bridal party gift isn't always easy- so we asked past brides and brides-to-be what really matters. In our recent survey we uncovered the top factors that influence their gifting decisions, and the results might surprise you.
If you're currently searching for a meaningful wedding morning for your bridal party, mother or mother-in-law, this guide will help you choose something your bridal party will actually love - and use.
My Key Survey Findings
#1: Sentimentality & Personalisation - 76.2% of brides said a personal touch makes all the difference.
#2: Functionality (Something They Can Use) - 65.1% of brides want gifts that are practical, not just pretty.
#3: Budget-Friendly Considerations - 28.6% of brides are conscious of cost but prioritise meaning over price.
#4: Matching Wedding Colours - was only important to 23.8%, and Aesthetic Appeal for Photos to 22.2%, showing that sentimental & useful gifts matter more than visual trends.
The big takeaway from this? A thoughtful, bespoke yet functional gift will always win over something purely decorative or trendy! When it comes to bridal party gifting, memories are just as important as the gift itself, so why not combine a memory with a gift?
Gifting a Memory: Why Personalisation Matters to Brides
When it comes to choosing the perfect wedding morning gift, brides aren't just looking for something pretty—they want something deeply personal and meaningful. Our in-depth interviews with real brides confirmed one thing: the best gifts aren’t about the price tag, but about the thought behind them.
One bride-to-be, Leah, shared:
"When I was a bridesmaid last March, I was gifted a personalised pair of slippers and a set of pyjamas, and I’ll always remember it because of the thought that went into it. I remember being taken aback and feeling really special because it wasn’t just any set of pjs but made specifically for me. It was a really nice touch, and I’ll cherish them forever."
This sentiment was echoed by many brides we spoke to. Personalisation is more than just adding a name to an item—it’s about creating an emotional connection between the bride and her bridal party, making each person feel truly valued and appreciated on the big day.
Real Brides on the Importance of Thoughtful Gifting
"I wanted my bridesmaids to think of me and my wedding day every time they used the gift."
Rachael shared that she gifted her bridal party personalised clutch bags. She admitted she went over budget because she wanted something truly meaningful:
"I definitely went over budget for these gifts, but I wanted my bridesmaids to think of me and my wedding day every time they used the bag. I wanted to give them a memory of the day, so I felt like the investment was worth it."
Ruby pointed out that personalisation often requires extra effort, but that’s what makes the gift so special:
"You can only really find mass-produced stuff unless you’re willing to put the work in yourself. Even sending things online, you can only find tacky stuff. That’s the thing."
The Wedding Morning Gift That Lasts Beyond the Day
The best bridal party gifts aren’t just used for a single moment—they’re treasured long after the wedding. Whether it’s a hand-painted champagne flute used during the morning toast or a personalised bottle that sits on a shelf as a keepsake, a well-chosen gift brings back memories every time they see it.
This is exactly why hand-painted champagne flutes and bottles make the perfect wedding morning gift. They combine:
- Personalisation – Names, dates, and custom details make them unique.
- Functionality – They’re used during the toast and kept as a lifelong keepsake.
- A sentimental connection – Each piece tells a story, just like your wedding day.
Toast With Meaning - Gift a Memory
Looking for something bespoke and memorable for your bridal party gifts? Browse my hand-painted, personalised champagne flutes & bottles, see the full collection here. Designed to be used, displayed and a memory of the moment toasted.
Still looking for inspiration? Check out my Pinterest board, full of bridal party gift ideas here.
What Will Your Bridesmaids Remember?
When you look back on your wedding morning, you’ll remember the laughter, the excitement, the first toast of the day. Why not give your bridal party a gift that lets them relive that memory every time they see it?
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3 Common Mistakes Brides Make When Choosing Gifts
Choosing Trends over Sentimentality
Choosing what everyone else is choosing, rather than thinking about the personal touch of a gift tailored to your bridal party. One example is perfume! It is a common bridesmaid gift but taste in perfume varies and some people don't wear it at all which means you're spending a lot of money on something that may not be remembered or used.
Going Too Cheap!
Yes, a wedding budget is a very real and necessary element of the day but going too cheap with gifts means you sacrifice on quality, uniqueness and in the end how memorable will your gift really be? Budget-friendly is good but low-quality won't last beyond the wedding.
Forgetting Functionality
I hope this guide helps point you in the best direction and saves you some unwanted stress - happy planning!